I’ve had some long conversations with old friends lately; people from high school and college.
I’ve done a lot of thinking about stuff that happened back in the early and mid 90s; there’s no reason to continue holding a grudge about things that happened back then. All of us were young, stupid, and immature.
Being able to talk to someone and forgive/forget what happened so long ago is very therapeutic. I may have lost a wife, but I’ve regained some very dear friends.